She's asking to be sure you don't have plans, and in the same breath, seeing if you want to do something Valentine's Day. If you like her, what you should've said is, "I was going to ask you the same thing?" If she’s asking you she’s most likely asking to see if your busy doing anything. Today she asked if I had any valentines day plans and I simply said no and we moved on. Was this a sign that I should ask her to do something or am I overthinking this? UPDATE: Yeah, she already has a boyfriend. I don't think girls care about what random guys are doing on valentines day. She expects you to say "nothing really what about you" she says "umm I'm free too" and you go "oh .. wanna hang out?" Good luck ;) Overall, if a girl asks you “what are you doing?”, it can mean a variety of things depending on the context and tone of the question. Whether it’s an attempt to start a conversation, show interest, or pursue a romantic relationship, it’s important to respond honestly and thoughtfully while also taking into account the nuances of the Próximity is a good sign, if she allows you to hug her, touch her arm. That means she is comfortable with you and that is a good sign. If she is the first one to text you in a new conversation that’s a really good sign. If she tells you about her day/week, that means she confides in you and therefore finds you trustworthy. If you’re unsure about whether you’re even hanging out for the holiday, ask, “What are your V-Day plans?” or boldly say, “I’d love to spend Valentine’s Day with you, are you available?” Otherwise, you’ll be disappointed if the day goes by and you don’t even get a call, let alone a card. I’ve been dating a girl for two months now, and she hasn’t (or rather) let me kiss her. She says she wants to take things slowly each time I have tried. Am I in the wrong or? Ask her if she’d be your valentine. If she says yes, go ahead with the small gift. If she says no or hesitates let her know that’s no trouble and you still enjoy whatever pace you two are already going. Here are 10 things single women say frequently, along with a best case and worst case scenario translation of what they really mean. #1. When a Girl Says: “Fine.” Best Case Scenario: She’s not exactly thrilled with whatever you said or did, but she’s in the process of making peace with it. Give her some space to process it further. Some innovative ways to ask someone to be your Valentine are: Send a witty note Create a personalized pizza Write a poem Ask via Scrabble Design a T-shirt. While it appears sensible to spend Valentine’s Day with your significant other, asking someone who ‘clearly’ should be your Valentine can be meaningful to them. valentine's day is one of the dumbest holidays. i was never a fan of giving or receiving gifts and the like in general, so i wouldn't do anything for my partner and i wouldn't want him to do anything for me and i would refuse any gift unless he absolutely insisted on giving me one and was totally fine with not getting anything back. i do the Valentine’s day presents an excellent opportunity to reach out to that person you have been crushing on for a while. Whether you’re a tween sending a card in school, a teen crushing on someone, or an adult in a committed relationship, there are several ways to ask someone to be your Valentine. I think I'm honestly going to ask him his thoughts about Valentine's Day I do have surprises for him in place already so I'm not just expecting him to shower me with gifts because I'm a girl but good points! and I will definitely talk with him to see what is a good compromise A girl who asks what you are doing this weekend is not necessarily indicating that you should organize something with her. Instead of assuming that she is interested in dating you, she may simply be trying to start a conversation or learn more about your interests and activities. Some background: Me and this girl have been dating for like 3-4 months. We were talking about valentines day and established that we would be doing something to celebrate it, we just havent planned it what day yet (We might celebrate it earlier cuz of our schedules). Im going to say something that someone said to me which motivated me even more. "If you dont do it some other alpha male will do it and he wont care about the circumstances, afterwards the date he will fuck her so good and she'll fall in love with him" Don't hesitate man, if you dont do it someone else with bigger balls will. Best of luck Today, I realized that when a girl asks what your plans are for Valentine's Day and you say, "Nothing" and she responds with, "Oh, I don't have Not lunch. Not coffee. Dinner. You've got enough time that you can ask her early this week if she'd like to do something this weekend and then Valentine's day will be less than a week away: perfect for a second date. Do make reservations in advance though because restaurants tend to be packed around valentine's day. i would. i remember asking a girl out in the 3rd grade two days before valentine’s day. then she got weirded out when i brought her flowers on valentine’s day. coming from a 23 year old. but you should ask her out and just buy her a box of sweethearts and give her good fuck on V-Day nothing more. best wishes I would have absolutely loved that when I was 16, if she loves flowers than she’ll like that, it’s all about preference. I couldn’t care what my bf gets me for any holiday as long as I get flowers, even if that’s all he can afford I’m happy af haha if anything I’d leave some basic flowers wrapped for her, some roses with some greens and baby’s breath would be cute.
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