After five dates, on the Saturday before Valentine's Day, we slept together. Valentine's Day comes and goes and he didn't mention it to me, didn't ask me out, or even say "Happy Valentines" Valentine's Day is just a few days away. If you've been dating someone for a while and haven't received a formal invitation to be his Valentine, it's natural to feel disappointed. But, should you toss away the relationship? Not just yet. not to give you a hard time, leslie, but if a woman calls a guy she's been on four dates with and says "why didn't you call me on valentine's day?" (no matter how it's phrased or approached.. unless it's playful) is going to put the guy on the defensive. In this week’s Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert column, a single woman is feeling anxious because the guy she’s dating hasn’t asked her out yet for Valentine’s Day. Here’s her question and our answer. If you’re unsure about whether you’re even hanging out for the holiday, ask, “What are your V-Day plans?” or boldly say, “I’d love to spend Valentine’s Day with you, are you available?” Otherwise, you’ll be disappointed if the day goes by and you don’t even get a call, let alone a card. Today is the Valentine’s Day but he didn’t write me or asked me out until now. Does it mean he is not that interested anymore or doesn’t want to rush things? Please share your opinion. I didn't think it was stressful to just text someone "Happy Valentine's Day." Not to be rude, but it's something I also say to my family and friends, and at the very least, he and I are friends. We've been friendly to each other. TLDR: boyfriend and I are in a LDR and he promised he would call me on Valentine’s Day but he never did, even when he said he would in one hour. Nobody's responded to this post yet. Add your thoughts and get the conversation going. Wondering why he didn't call or reach out to you? Has he gone silent over text? Here are 7 real reasons why men don't reach out to women and what to do about it. My boyfriend and I are long-distance for the time being. We've been together 3.5 years, and exchanged gifts last Valentine's day. He has a lot of stressful things going on in his life at the moment, so I wasn't expecting much. However, he didn't get me anything, or even send a card. I was always triggered around Valentine’s Day when they didn’t plan or get me anything. I realize it’s a dumb holiday but when they made zero effort the other 364 days, you hope that maybe on Valentine’s Day, when there are boxes of chocolate or bouquets of flowers front and center at every grocery store, they’ll do SOMETHING. good point there, actually. i wasn’t going to bring it up to him because this “casual” dating thing makes me feel like i shouldn’t. but at the end of the day we’re all humans and i think it’s unkind that he didn’t acknowledge me, or us. He didn’t call me me again but sent me a regular text message talking about his travels. I know I might sound completely shallow for putting so much weight into a gift on Valentine’s Day, and believe me when I say that I normally don’t mind situations like this. So my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day and we spent the day just driving around places I planned out. When I gave him a gift (which I put thought into), he apologized for not getting anything for me and said he didn’t have time (because he doesn’t have a car). At first he was unsure but then wanted to do it. I knew it wouldn’t arrive in time for Valentine’s day but I was glad he was on board with the idea. I thought he knew it was important to me. So when he didn’t wish me happy Valentine’s Day I was a bit peeved off but instead of getting angry, I let him know that I wish he did. He wished me a Happy V Day and said he hopes I am having a good day. He didn’t ask to see me, though. I am not that concerned about gifts or anything and I am happy he thought of me enough to contact me. But most of the advice here is that I should forget about him. I like him but I am confused on what to do. Should I stop talking to him? WHY doesn’t he call? Why isn’t he making contact? WHY isn’t he responding? Well, I’m here to tell you, that it is OK to stop. To stop right now. To just stop obsessing. You have my permission! Relinquish Control & Stop Obsessing. We are about to get into 4 steps of what to do when he doesn’t call. The guy I am dating didn't get me anything for Valentine's Day. But we'd already said we think buying because commercialised shops say we should wasn't reallt what we are about. Yesterday I was waiting for my boyfriend to wish me a happy Valentine’s Day but when it came around 6 o’clock and he still didn’t say anything about it I brought up how it hurt my feeling because I felt like he forgot it was valentines and he knew we already couldn’t see each other because of work and travel distance. Anyway, I don't expect him to give me anything for valentine's day even that I did make and give him a digital valentine's day card in which he didn't say much for that either 😝 But we spent the whole night (his time), morning (my time) binge watching a series and talked till he fell asleep.
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