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Valentine's Day is an odd holiday: for some people, it's super important, but for others, it's not especially significant. If you've been dating for 2 months, it's possible you both misunderstood each other's expectations for the day. It's totally valid to care about Valentine's Day and to be hurt that he didn't get you anything. It’s best to give this guy a nice breakup as a Valentine’s Day gift. My Husband Didn’t Get Me Anything For Valentine’s Day. We are not talking about some random boyfriend here; we are talking about your husband here. You expected a nice Valentine’s Day gift from him but didn’t get it. Maybe this is the reason: 1. My husband and I normally don’t do anything for Valentine’s Day but he used to get me flowers/food etc when we were dating. It wasn’t much, and I honestly didn’t care. But somehow this year, both of us have gotten busy and my husband (who was shitty before about planning romantic things) just 100% dropped the ball- no planning dinners Common Reasons a Boyfriend Might Not Give a Valentine’s Gift He May Not Subscribe to the Idea of Valentine’s Day. Many people despise Valentine’s Day because it is a “Hallmark Holiday.” This refers to holidays that no longer celebrate their original meaning and now only exist to sell holiday cards and gifts. He would rather do nothing than risk disappointing me. Yes, I still feel a twinge of sadness when Valentine’s Day, my birthday, Mother’s Day, and Christmas come and go gift-free. I have to actively resist the urge to compare “my husband” to “her husband” as the photos go live on Facebook and Twitter. But then I remember that I was always triggered around Valentine’s Day when they didn’t plan or get me anything. I realize it’s a dumb holiday but when they made zero effort the other 364 days, you hope that maybe on Valentine’s Day, when there are boxes of chocolate or bouquets of flowers front and center at every grocery store, they’ll do SOMETHING. My Boyfriend Didn’t Get Me A Valentine’s Gift – What It Really Means It could be hard to confine to 1 reason why your boyfriend didn’t get you any gift for Valentine’s. Generally, some reasons why this embarrassing and heartbreaking event happened include: he’s just too busy, your gift might still be in transit, or worse, he doesn The woman explained: "I said don't buy me flowers for Valentine's Day as they're an expensive rip-off. He took this to mean 'don't buy anything'." The woman went on: "I'm really not fussed, been 3. Your Husband is Insecure When Buying Gifts. Be honest now. Has it ever happened that you didn’t like the gift your husband bought you? He bought you a T-shirt in a color you don’t like or a makeup palette you don’t use. How did you react to that? Did you accept the gift as it is, or did you clearly show that you don’t like it? As an example: If my way to offer and receive affection for my special someone is through sharing quality time with them and they just blow me off on Valentine's Day, I'd probably feel hurt too, unless we'd both discussed it and decided that Valentine's day didn't really hold any significance for us. In case you’re stressing about what to give your lover for this upcoming Valentine’s Day, may I offer a suggestion? Sure, twenty-plus years ago, when my husband and I were first dating as high Valetines day I made a discord bot that would send her reasons I love her every day for 3 months. She got me nothing for any of those events. She did get me something for my birthday before we started dating and she drew me something for Christmas (so did I). How do I tell her that I'm kinda upset she didnt get me anything without sounding too I always get my husband things for Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, etc but ALL of my coworkers were of the opinion that Valentine’s Day is for the women. One of my coworkers was even surprised when her bf texted her asking when they would exchange gifts and had to run out and buy him something. Maybe you plan your Valentine’s Day festivities weeks in advance and purchase a special outfit for the occasion. If so, I hope you have the most delicious dinner and feel smokin’ in whatever you wear. My Husband has never given me a gift or flowers or a box of chocolates on Valentine’s Day – and I’m ok with that. Obviously I can’t give his side on my birthday situation, but he didn’t get me anything until the day of, and then didn’t plan a place to eat after just said “I don’t know we could go to eat at X place”. I told him later that I wanted to be thought of more, like more thought into the gift or the dinner/activity. That's your own damn fault. It's just a day. Not even your anniversary. Me and my gf didn't even bring up that it's Valentines day. anything I said just sounded selfish when I put it into words. Not selfish, but childish. I can’t believe she didn’t acknowledge our anniversary in some type of gesture. This might sound petty coming from a husband, but I guarantee you if the roles were reverse 90% of the time and a husband didn’t give his wife some type of gift or card or flowers on a milestone anniversary all Hell would break loose. Not everybody celebrates Valentine’s day - hell I’ve been with my husband for 5+ years and can’t remember the last time we did anything for our anniversary, let alone Valentine’s, but I am/we are totally fine with that, because we let the other know that it doesn’t matter. That's exactly right. I want him to choose me. If there are two options, and one of them involves getting me a gift for Valentine's Day but the other doesn't, I want him to choose to get me a gift. Yeah there is White Day, but that is not my culture and he knows that we did it that way last year. I want a card and a gift on my birthday, a card and a gift on our anniversary, and a card on Valentine's Day." He said "I don't do Valentine's Day." I said "I would like a card on Valentine's day." I reminded him in January "Don't forget card on valentine's day." So Valentine's Day rolls around and he gets me a card. I open it and it says
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