With pandemic I didn’t think going out was a great plan and didn’t put much effort in. My wife was not happy so I made some plans to get to go dinner, make brunch and play some games. Our favorite thing to do is to find a place that carries greeting cards and pick one out for each other, show them to each other in the store, save 10$ and Happy Valentine's Day, friend! It's really unfortunate that he didn't at least say the words to you :(. There's nothing wrong with you! It's been a common thread on this sub today that some boyfriends "don't believe in Valentines Day" or "won't celebrate [it]". This could be the case! Here is the thing, if Valentine's day is super important to her, then why didn't she wish you a happy Valentine's day? It's not like you wouldn't have reciprocated. You obviously need to learn how to have a proper argument because you could very easily said, "After such a great weekend I'm really disappointed that you think I don't care. What’s not to love about Valentine's Day? This sweet holiday, celebrated on Feb. 14, is all about spreading love and appreciation for one another. “I think whether it’s a romantic relationship or a friendship it’s about showing your love for everyone and the people you care about,” said senior After five dates, on the Saturday before Valentine's Day, we slept together. Valentine's Day comes and goes and he didn't mention it to me, didn't ask me out, or even say "Happy Valentines" day to me. Valentine’s Day is about your love for each other, not what your friends and family (and strangers) think about your relationship. References Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (2015). Maybe he forgot. I say this because my girlfriend told me Happy Valentine’s Day today and I responded with “haha oh yeah, I forgot.” It’s not a big deal to a lot of people. I can’t stand this day. Unnecessary traffic everywhere. So maybe he doesn’t even like Valentine’s Day. Perhaps you could ask him what he thinks about Tell your partner that you enjoy celebrating Valentine's Day and were hoping for a gift. Suggest the possibility of an alternative "Valentine's Day" just for the two of you. Be sure to use "I-statements" while discussing the subject. I-statements usually begin with "I feel" and go on to explain your emotions. Unless he didn't go outside, to work (we had heart shaped cookies at work), to the grocery store, or get on the internet yesterday, chances are slim he didn't know it was Valentine's Day. He, unlike you, didn't even wonder if you wanted to celebrate Valentine's Day. It's sort of inconsiderate and weird that he didn't care enough to even ask. Think back to the days when she couldn’t keep her hands off of you. How were you treating her, on Valentine’s Day and the whole rest of the year? Chances are you were taking time to make her feel special, treasured, and loved in all kinds of big and small ways. Don’t neglect your wife on Valentine’s Day. Show her what she means to you. Hi! I am also in a long distance relationship and also frustrated with the lack of acknowledgment my boyfriend gave. I too am not super into Valentine’s Day and was not expecting a gift or anything, but fully expected him to say “Happy Valentine’s Day” which he didn’t. You are not alone at all and I understand how you feel. Yes, they can opt out. Let them opt out in peace then, instead of you being condescending. And you're right. If you don't spend $30 on a card, chocolate and flowers, then you definitely don't give a shit about you SO. Making an effort on Valentine's Day is great if you're SO is into it, but if you don't it doesn't mean you don't care about them. I haven't got my GF anything for the three valentines we've been together and she hasn't done anything for me either. Valentine day is a pointless day in the first place. You don't need a special day to let your SO know you care about them. Eh, I think you're justified. You agreed to exchange gifts two months ago. He had two months to budget for a gift under $20 dollars. Literally he just had to save $20 dollars in that timeframe. Talk about your feelings and use "I" statements: I felt confused that you didn't get dessert like you said you would. I was hoping that I would feel loved and appreciated on Valentine's Day and I was disappointed that you didn't seem to make any effort. I had expectations that weren't met and I need to understand what's going on. Honestly, if I were her, I'd just want to see you on Valentine's day. I wouldn't care about gifts. An hour isn't too far, so maybe surprise her with a single rose that evening. My SO is leaving the country for 5 months on Valentine's day and I would want nothing more than to be able to spend the entire day with him but can't. I used to think only guys had to impress and treat the girls, and I felt shocked and embarrassed when my husband was sad that I wasn’t willing and didn’t even think of giving to him for Valentine’s Day. It was eye-opening to me. Not only do you express your love towards each other, but it creates mutual respect and realistic expectations Anyway, I don't expect him to give me anything for valentine's day even that I did make and give him a digital valentine's day card in which he didn't say much for that either 😝 But we spent the whole night (his time), morning (my time) binge watching a series and talked till he fell asleep. Valentine’s Day is a special time when people celebrate love and friendship, and kids can join in on the fun too! It’s all about giving cards, candy, and maybe even a heart-shaped balloon to show someone you care. Valentine’s Day Jokes for kids are a great way to spread some laughs and make the day even more exciting. So I'm crazy about Valentine's. I'm all in to the gushy love and the gifts. with that said, I've never once received a Valentine's gift. Not once. Also, my bday was yesterday and I also didn't get anything. I got a happy bday text and that's it. You'd think I would start to hate Valentine's but I'm just a sucker I guess.
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